Golden Globe Inspired Wedding Dress

     Many of us watch the Golden Globes just for the red carpet. I want to see the dresses. I always fascinate over the dresses that can be transformed into a wedding or bridesmaid dress. I have a great imagination. Take a look at my picks and see what you can come up with.

 These are my absolute favorite of the night, they are all sexy. I could not decide on just one!

Can't forget the bling!

                            Great Plus Size dress ideas, ruching works magic.

                                                            An Honorable mention!

   Imagine Heidi's dress in ivory or white, with crystals instead of turquoise breads, stunning.

Great Bridesmaid dresses!

Wedding Cake Toppers

     We have found some great ideas for wedding cake toppers. The topper should reflect your taste and style. Here is a place where you can inject humour without stepping out of your theme.

Ring Pillow Remix!

     The ring pillow has evolved over the years. I have a couple great ideas, no matter what theme you have its something for everyone. Have other ideas share them with me!

Say I Do, under this!

      Canopies are such a great addition to any wedding. A Chuppah is a canopy under which a Jewish couple stands during their wedding ceremony. A chuppah symbolizes the home that the couple will build together. More and more I am seeing non Jewish couples  incorporate this decor in their wedding. I have complied a couple different inspiration for you . Have fun!

You're Engaged Now What part 2!

     You've told everyone, and that is out of the way. Now its time to get down to business. The wedding budget is the next thing you want to nail down. It's traditional for the bride's parents to pay for the wedding. In many cases this does not happen anymore. Couples are paying for it themselves, and its a group of family and friends helping out.
     What you want to do is establish a monetary amount that you would and could spend on your wedding. Be realistic when it comes to how much things cost. Research is key. Seach on-line in your area for Venues, flowers, and other elements to plan the type of wedding you want. You have to know an estimate of the wedding you want to plan.  a great idea is to contact a local wedding planner, they will know how much things cost, and can give you an estimate on the wedding you want.

     How much can you afford? Here is a formula that I used for my brides.

 Family Contribution = this is how much the couple's family is willing to spend on their wedding. FC=  $10,000

Couple Have Saved = this is how much you all already have saved for the wedding.                CHS = $10,000

Couple Can Save= this is how much you can save up until the day of the wedding.                  CCS = $12,000
 With this formula this couple has $32,000 to work with. The average wedding is $26,000.                                                                                                                                          
                                                                                                                                                     

 CCS is collected as follows the couple has a year to save, they can afford to save $1000 each month for the wedding. However much you can save each month divide that by the months you have before the wedding leaving out the last month.
 
  Planning a wedding can be stressful, take your time and decide your vision for your wedding, and how much will it cost.  Have a talk with all key players. Some parents pay for certain elements of the wedding instead of just giving a monetary amount. For example the brides aunt will be willing to purchase the brides wedding dress. The most important thing is to have a starting point.
                                       
     Good luck, and happy planning check back for part 3 in You're Engaged Now What!        

                                                                                     

BEST FATHER DAUGHTER WEDDING DANCE

BEST FATHER DAUGHTER WEDDING DANCE: This father and daughter wedding dance will be remembered for a long time by family of friends!

Married to the Military

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Very Special Events by V. Smith: Fall Weddings

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Have a Seat!

You are the center of attention. Here are a couple ideas on the type of chairs you can have at your wedding. The sky is the limit, after all you are the guest of honor. Stand out, and be grand.

Very Special Events by V. Smith: VsbyVS's Wedding Planning Packages

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Let there be light!

     Lighting at any events can bring an dramatic effect. Check out these great lighting inspirations so your guest will not be left in the dark.

Alternative Bouquets!

Check out these great ideas for alternative bouquets for your wedding.

Very Special Events by V. Smith: Color of the week!

Very Special Events by V. Smith: Color of the week!: Hi, welcome to the color of the week page. Each week we will choose a color to explore. I will used the color in different combos, and...

Very Special Events by V. Smith: Wedding planning Contest

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Say What!

     Signs are a great and fun way to entertain your guest! They are great conversational pieces, and also great for photos too. Here are a couple ideas I like.

You're engaged, now what! Part 1

     
     Get the news out! If the couple has any children they should be told first. Then the parents of the couple should know about the engagement next. Parents of the bride should be told first, and following the groom’s parents should be told of the great news. Once the parents are told, everyone else can know. The couple can start spreading the news between close family members and friends.  Some people prefer throwing a engagement party to spread the news and some people just call or email the news, I prefer to have a small dinner with close family and friends, it’s a great way for everyone to mingle and meet.
     The couple can also celebrate their engagement with a party, even if they have already informed everybody about the future wedding personally or through phone calls. The engagement can also be announced by placing an add in a local newspaper. Either way it's a grand celebration!



 Check back for the next part of You're Engaged, now what!  I will be explaining how to get started planning you're dream wedding.
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How to choose a venue for your event!

     The Venue for your wedding is going to be one of the most important decision you will have to make during your wedding planning process.  I have included a criteria for you to consider to make the best decision for you.

The Cost

 Make sure the cost is within you budget.

The Location

Make sure it is easily accessible for  you and your guest. If you are not having the ceremony in the same place, is it close to the ceremony location?

The Theme

Make sure the over all look of the Venue fits your theme. Or can it be transformed without breaking the bank.

 Once you have a Venue in mind use these questions  to select your dream Venue.


What is the capacity?
What is provided  at no additional cost?
Is there a minimum?
Can you bring an outside caterer?
Can you bring your own alcohol and if so, do you need a permit?
Do they allow day before set-up?
What is you clean up time frame?
What's the gratuity?

Do they have a day-of-coordinator?
Are there dressing rooms? ?
If they provide cake service 
When is the final payment due?
When are final counts due?
Are there additional fees?

Be Inspired!

Planning a wedding can be fun but sometimes overwhelming. A great idea to decide on a theme is to construct a inspiration board. I have put together a couple ideas for you.

A really fun idea is a rainbow wedding!

Damask is classic!

Purple and blue with Peacock accents.

Culture Inspired.

All white, and everything nice!

A perfect pair!

Polka Dots!

Pink, Pink and more Pink!

Gerber Daisy

Let them eat cake!

    The wedding cake has become one of the most important attraction in wedding today! It is the star at the reception.  The wedding cake should reflect the couples style. I have put together a couple of ideas to get you thinking about your wedding cake.

                                                 Monogram Cakes

Cakes with flowers

Cakes with patterns

                                                     Bows & Bling

Draping

            Artistic Cakes

                     Topsy Turvy Cakes

Cupcakes

          Could not leave out the Grooms cake!

What's a wedding cake without a topper!

911 Wedding Emergency!

     Must have for all weddings is a Wedding Emergency Kit. If you have a planner they will come equipped. If not make sure you right hand man (Maid of Honor) has one for your wedding. I have included a list of everything I take to each wedding. If anyone wants to add to this list please comment.

• Snacks and drinks
• Hand Lotion
• Wet Wipes
• Tissues
• Cotton balls or swabs
• Makeup
• bobby pins, hair pins
• Make up remover (or make up remover pads)
• Nail polish, clear polish (in case of runs in pantyhose), remover and a nail file
• Tweezers
• A small scissors
• Lint brush
• Curling Iron
• Hair dryer
• Brush, comb, hairspray or gel
• Bobby pins or elastics
• Toothbrush, toothpaste and floss
• Mouthwash
• Mints ( you will be doing a lot of talking)
• Portable Iron
• Deodorant
• Perfume
• Extra pantyhose
• Extra earring backs
• Extra buttons
• Safety pins and a sewing kit in the bride and bridesmaids' dress colors
• Masking tape or sewing tape
• Club soda or stain removal towelettes
• Flat shoes in case your feet hurt
• Double-stick tape
• Antacid
• Antihistamine
• Cold Remedies
• Prescription Medications
• Aspirin or Pain Relievers
• Band-aids
• Upset stomach medicine
• Feminine Hygiene Products

• Copies of directions to ceremony, photo location and reception
• Phone numbers of all wedding participants
• Contact information for all vendors
• Marriage license
• A smile ( you are getting married)

Present!

  I am so excited! Guests books are so interactive now.  No need for that book to sit on a shelf and collect dust. I have found great new fun ways for your guests to show you they were Present on your big day.

Here  are a couple ideas from http://www.esty.com/.

Your guest will sign your favorite bottles of wine instead of a traditional guest book, and on your milestone anniversaries you can drink the wine and read your guests' well wishes. What a great way to be able to reminisce about your wedding day, and have an eternal keepsake as well.

 Game playing card, have guest fill these out during cocktail hour. Beware after a couple of drinks things can get really wild!

This tree is a very fun and interactive way to get guest interested. Have guest fill this out and you will have this keepsake for a lifetime.

This is one of my forvorites.

This is such a great idea!

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This beautiful message in a bottle is the perfect twist. Have your guests sign or write congratulatory messages on the designer paper sheets. After your wedding, role them up and tuck them away in the personalized bottle and seal with a cork. The bottle and stand make for a unique presentation at your reception and at your home. Take the messages out to read on your anniversary and then tuck them back in the bottle for years of safe keeping.